I excel at executive function. I believe this mainly because I bike in New York City - a busy place filled with drivers also eager to get where they’re going - and I LIVE in New York City, where when you leave the house, you’re not going back until your day is through. There’s no “throw a sweater or my baseball glove in the trunk so it’s there when I need it” - if you need it, you must carry it. Based on these two things, I believe that my extra practice in executive function has made me excellent at it.
Executive function is the term used in early childhood development to describe some very grown up skills. Things like planning and saving and remembering to pack a sweater are all grown up manifestations of having exceptional executive function. Common tests for this in child development are the famous marshmallow test - where a child is given a marshmallow, and told to wait to eat it until the researcher comes back, at which time they would be given two marshmallows. Thinking to future rewards, managing your needs and wants, and inhibiting initial reactions are the core elements of executive function.
As I’m thinking about coronavirus and how it will change childhood and development of young kids, I think about all of the NEW things that kids have to think about suddenly - all of this practice that kids are getting in executive function. While kids used to have to inhibit their chattiness when it came to talking to strangers, now they have to think about being near strangers or playing on the playground after a stranger has played there. They have to take the time to put on shoes before they go out a play, but they also have to remember to put on gloves and a clean mask. Won’t all of this extra precaution mean that kids will gain executive function earlier than their predecessors in history? Just like living in NYC gives you extra practice at the skills of executive function, doesn’t practicing executive function in a children’s context make kids better at it?
Then I thought about childhood. And I thought about David Kleeman’s mantra, “Child development doesn’t change - its context does.” While this is a new set of challenges for adults, and is greatly affecting how we think about and plan for our daily and long-term needs - for kids, it’s just a lot of stuff that they sometimes think about but most of the time forget. The context of child development feels so much different than it did when I was a kid or when my parents were kids - but the actual progression through child development stages, remains unchanged.
Kids are resilient, kids learn quickly, and regardless of what’s happening in the world around them, they will remember to wash their hands when they are developmentally ready to do so - corona or not.